The important topic of intimacy

In one of the last weeks of my class, we learned about a few important areas in which we need to teach our children about certain subjects. These are subjects that will help them as they develop and become independent people. I learned a lot from this weeks lesson. The topics they addressed specifically were about money, intimacy, and media. The main one I would like to focus on here is the FHE lesson we had to prepare and teach our family on intimacy. We were asked to watch a handful of videos from the Mormon Channel on the topic of intimacy in marriage and specifically on how to teach your children about the importance or it. These videos were fantastic and it eased any worry I had about teaching my kids about intimacy and sex and it's purposes and the importance of these in marriage. What I loved the most was that through this assignment, I felt like I was given permission to talk to my kids about sex and open up that dialogue. I know that I didn't really need permission. That is a crazy thought. But it wasn't until this lesson that I really felt like I could talk to them and know what to say. Sex is not a hush, hush subject in our home. I am not afraid to say the word to my kids, but to have a formal talk about it where I explained some important things I learned from the videos was wonderful and something I would like to continue doing. 
The videos posted here are the ones I used and that I feel like all parents in the church and out of the church could use in talking to their children on this subject. 

https://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/collection/family-conversations-talking-about-healthy-sexuality/why-should-parents-talk-to-their-children-about-sexual-intimacy

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